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Mar
04
By: Ryan | Discussion (0)




If you are going on a date, always tell your date what you actually think. Never be wishy washy and tell her what you think she wants to think. Just tell her the clear and unavoidable truth and your date will go SO much smoother. Best of all, you might just get something extra out of your date. An honest, and great realtionship!

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Feb
17
By: Ryan | Discussion (1)

Thoust Shall looks his best!

If you are going on a date a women does not want to see you wearing the same clothes you wore to your high school prom, get yourself a new tux and treat her like she is something special.

Thoust Shall have personal hygiene

This includes brushing your teeth, flossing, shaving, showering is always good too. Women like that fresh smell and boy will it win her over on that date, plus she might even ask where you got these dating tips. ;)

Thoust Shall have a job

Women hate the unemployed or living with there parent types. They WILL pick up on this on the first date, get yourself a job, doing something other than working at Burger King.

…and that’s all the time we have for today class. Come back tomorrow and you will enjoy the virtues of dating tips once again as I unleash another 3 tips to make you date successful.



Feb
17
By: Ryan | Discussion (1)

First off thank him/her for a nice date, and explain (gently) that you don’t feel that there is any chemistry. You may prefer to do this by phone at a later stage. If he/she asks for a second chance, and asks you to go on another date with him/her; you must be firm with him/her. If you don’t want to have any kind of relationship with the guy/gal, then you have to make it quite clear.

Just close it off as quickly as you can. If you are going to the dinner and then the movies, tell them it is just not working out after dinner and thank them. There is nothing wrong with leaving if your date just plainly sucks.



Feb
13
By: Ryan | Discussion (0)

First off, who wants to deal with you and your negativity on their date.  They want to get to know you better and a sure way to not catch a great person is by approaching them with a very negative sense.  If you just start swearing around them or you have talked about them behind their back in the past, are you really doing what you should?  Just avoid the issues and try to make the first few dates the most positive experiences of your life.   

This has been a Ryan’s Dating Connection mini tip, for those who are too lazy to read Dating Tips 



Feb
12
By: Ryan | Discussion (0)

I thought I would bring you the top 10 dating tips I have gathered along the way in the hope of assisting and enlightening those who need assistance. If you are new to the dating scene, a regular or just simply someone trying to meet someone new there should always be time for top dating tips, advice, information and things to consider. None of us are dating experts otherwise we would have a magic formula to present to others. And no, looks are not the magic formula otherwise all supermodels would be blissfully happy - which they are not my friend. Good looking people the world over struggle when it comes to affairs of the heart. Think of all the major figures in history who have fallen in matters of romance.

The truth is, there are no magic formulas, no perfect tricks of the trade, no cunning ways of trapping Mr. or Miss Right and no top dating tips that wave a magic wand. But there are some essential facts that you should always bear in mind along the way. Dating tips are just that - tips, they are not promises written in stone and different things will always work differently for different people. However, I have noticed that there are some threads of advice that keep cropping up and therefore it is worth reiterating my top 10 tips here.

My Top 10 Dating Tips

  • Get prepared for dating. If you really want to succeed in the dating game, decide who you are looking for, do your research and be ready to commit to dating. Half heartedness won’t work. Also prepare for some let downs along the way but don’t take dating too seriously either.

  • Get your act together. Begin a regime of looking your best. Join a gym, read health magazines, get fit and start a diet. Get your hair cut or styled and begin a new regime of good grooming or beauty treatment. Though it will not find you a date in itself, you will feel a million times more confident about yourself.

  • Go shopping and treat yourself to new clothes and even a whole new look. Get your image right, one that you can manage and live with, but one that flatters you. Don’t go overboard and look like someone you are not but maybe its time to throw out those tired jeans, old sweaters or cardigans and spruce yourself up. People appreciate appearance.

  • Have a good think about what your dating goals are and timescales. Do you see yourself married within 2 years? If you do then approach dating accordingly. If you are more laid back and don’t take dating too seriously then ask yourself some honest questions about why you are dating and what you hope to achieve. If it is purely sex then ask yourself if you are about to be honest with those you hope to date.

  • Sort out your confidence levels in advance. By following the first four tips you will feel better and be more focused. Do all the things that will boost your confidence from avoiding negative friends (often the married ones) to attending the right kind of social functions. Couples at dinner parties in suburbia is not necessarily where you need to be right now.

  • Choose those you have a good chance of dating, don’t aim low but do aim realistically. In other words, your dating is based on the whole package you present as well as just your personality. If you are looking for a glamour girl or boy and want to date someone trendy and gorgeous then good for you, but be prepared and be realistic about your chances.

  • Work out in advance where in your neighborhood you are likely to meet people and join clubs, societies, sports events, drama groups, anything where you are likely to meet potential partners. The kind of partners you are looking for. I know its a cliché but you will not meet people by staying indoors.

  • Take time off from dating occasionally if its not going well or causing dating fatigue. Dating is an ongoing process and so recharging the batteries and keeping the confidence and optimism levels high is an absolute must. So date in phases if necessary.

  • Enjoy dating for what it is, dating. It is meeting people and socializing and spending time in the company of stimulating individuals who may or may not bring you a sparkle. The fact is, most people are interesting and whilst you may not be out there looking for new friends, you may well find one or two fabulous people along the way.

  • Never ever make yourself too available. People like mystery and enigma and the thrill of the chase when dating. In keeping with this do not sleep with your dates early on if you want them to progress, so keep sex until later. The longer a person is made to chase and fall for you within reason, the more likely that love may blossom. Peak too early and you have little left to offer and emotions may never have had the time to develop.

With Valentines day being only two days away, you want all the chances you have to meet Mr. or Mrs. Right. Hopefully these tips help you and inspire you to do more with your relationships.